You can probably get a Coffin with a TV Screen and built in DVD Player. I mean on a serious note,if you have complaints about every single thing that people suggest without even trying it's just gonna be 5 boring weeks. Even if it's not your sort of thing,you should try to get out of your comfort zone at least a bit,because the thing you're avoiding might be something you'd really enjoy. Hell,go Volunteer,we have mass flooding here,but it doesn't take a disaster to go help someone. Better yet,you can go and get a Part-Time job and earn some cash and get a feel of the working world,it won't hurt.(I'm sorry if you mentioned you're doing this already,I must've skipped it) Now back to your list,my major complaint is your attitude towards sport.You're always going to be too weak to do anything if you don't do anything to improve yourself,and I can tell you firsthand after doing 3 Years of Karate,that watching your strength slowly fade away is terrible,and not feeling strong to begin with is even worse. I for example lack upper body strength,but I greatly enjoy playing football,which doesn't require upper body strength (unless you're playing against a twat,and fancy footwork normally gets passed that problem),I also play Basketball,despite not liking it much. And for the love of god,go swimming,lift weights,jog.Get motivated and get in shape,set yourself a goal to come out stronger than you went into the summer,even tho 5 weeks isn't much,it's a starting point. Baramous is also completely right,if you can't get yourself motivated to do something alone,ask your closest friends to do it with you.In the end stuff like BBQ and Sports is about bonding with people you care about rather than just eating or getting exhausted. What a mess this post is,If all the people here can't help you,I suggest you go see someone close to you,familiar faces are more motivational than avatars and walls of text. AND ONE LAST THING,You won't get very far with Don't have that kind of attitude towards anyone or anything,it's bad in general and doesn't highlight you as any better for thinking it (Not that you're to blame,it's easy to get that kind of view,but if you approach things without that you'll be a lot better of) Speaking of,Killvion should really get involved in this
You can't know if you don't like it if you never REALLY tried it. I've tried a lot of things, and will keep trying stuff out. Sometimes it sticks, most don't fit me, but I DID try it out for a couple months, or maybe a bit more. If you don't, you cannot reject something without knowing what it is exactly, by having actually TRIED it. Nobody can tell you what experience something will be till you actually DO it. You rejecting most just means to me: Wasted effort, you're not worth it.
I had tried most of the things that you listed, told my opinion about them. Then there was things that I had never tried before and I am eager to try them when I get the chance. Then I said that beach sports are mostly full of idiots, well there are always exceptions, but in my area where I live, I don't want to even get close to those guys because I will most likely to get stabbed or something. There are probably nice people playing them in your area, but it is not my thing anyways. So you can't just say that I don't put any efford trying these sports/hobbies, I will notify you if I haven't even tried or heard about something.
Been a while since I've read from such a latently depressive person during this time of the year. Then again its the season of suicides (I had 2 in the past few months! yay!). Tell you what: If you cant find the motivation to do anything, and I see that as the underlying problem here, then you should talk to a doctor or a professional psych or whatever and get help. Seriously you dont seem to just have a negative attitude but also a serious lack of anything that would motivate you to even live a decent life. You're young and you're going to waste it if you keep this up. Get help or find someone who helps you out of your miserable situation. I mean seriously, STJ told you exactly what everyone here was thinking and you didnt even bother commenting that properly. Makes me think you dont even know exactly why you are like that. And that might turn out to be a condition. So, just go talk to someone who you would actually listen to.
Lets clear things out. As Panromir said this is the season of suicides, because depressed people sees "normal" people happy, while they are unhappy themselves. Well, you may see me like one of those people because I seem to have a negative attitude on all things that you throw at me. Well the truth ain't that, Panro gave some hints that I might be a depressed suicidal person who needs a doctor, the only reason why I need a doctor now is that my skin itches from the same spot. So if Panro or anyone are worried about my mental conditions, you don't need to be. I am currently enjoying the sun outside and waiting for the school to start so me and my friends can chat in school cafe. I had to blow more air out of my nose than usual while I saw that, because I can't see my life miserable at all 8) maybe boring at this moment, because I still live at home and can't do much things that people normally do. And as said earlier: I've tried sports, but I haven't found the right one yet. STJ:s comment was good and practical, I agree with him, but my meme sense was tingling when he mentioned "comfort zone", so I forgot to say " I agree with you"
By the way I wasnt judging your current life at all, because I really dont care about it. Now even if you're not depressive you seem to lack any kind of social contacts that would encourage you to change your lifestyle. Maybe, if you're that sure that you're fine, maybe change that. Edit: I actually missed that youre in the middle of puberty. I'm not surprised anymore. Disregard the stuff about depressions.
:lol: Well there you have it, go chat with friends outside of the school cafe then! Or, in general, ask your friends what they're up to and go join them. Yes, even if you don't like it and just complain about it, just go do it and at least the time will pass by. One of my favorite activities during the summer is just sitting on a terrace of bar with one or two friends, and just making comments of the people that pass by. "Holy shit look at that guy's afro!" (see someone in a wheelchair) "They see me rollin', they hatin'..." / "Keep ROLLIN ROLLIN ROLLIN ROLLIN" "uh-uh hipster alert" "is that woman pregnant or not?" ... TIL I am a horrible person.